Child Abuse

Child Abuse: The Effects on Them in Later Years

and The Cycle of Abuse this thing is horrible  

Introduction

There are so many things that go on in this world that are astounding. This world can be a very beautiful and amazing place in the right setting. Wonderful things can take place, like a person caring for another, people volunteering in the community, and loving families coming together. Some children aren't so lucky to have grown up in a peaceful place. There are many things that go on in this world that aren’t so beautiful. Things like murder, kidnapping, fighting, war, and diseases. Child abuse is one of these many horrible things. Child abuse can cause so many effects on children, and can cause them to act out. Child abuse is, in a way, almost responsible for some of these horrible acts.

'''Child Abuse: The Impact it has on the Child'''

            When I was little I had a best friend that I had known since we were babies. We lived in the same tiny town and so we always seen each other and spent time together. We grew up together, until about fourth grade when we each went to a different town and didn't get to see each other much. When we were about three, she would tell me she hated her grandma and she never wanted to stay at home. She stayed at my house for a while, but over time, she would stop coming over. When we were about six or seven Taylor, my friend, started to become withdrawn. She never wanted any attention, she didn’t talk to anyone else but me, and she missed a lot of school. A few days she would show up with bruises and each time she did, she would state that she didn't know what happened or had some kind of excuse.

One day I went over to her house, which was a treat because I hardly ever seen her. Taylor and I played with her easy bake oven and we dropped the cake mix on the floor. I laughed but quickly stopped as her eyes got big and she rushed to get napkins to clean it up. As we cleaned, her grandma walked in. She told me that it was getting late so I better go home. The next day at school Taylor showed up with more bruises and she finally told me that her grandma would hit her and punish her and she didn't know what to do. She asked me to not to tell anyone, so I kept quiet. I was scared for her. Eventually she moved in with another relative, but that wasn't for another few years.

The impact this had on me is beyond anything I've ever experienced. I didn't get abused first hand, but I felt the pain through Taylor, I had to watch as her bruises developed and as her absences in class increased. She wasn't the same girl she used to be, so outspoken and friendly, she became withdrawn and shy, as if she wished she could become invisible.

''Consequences Child Abuse has on Most Children''

 Child maltreatment affects children now and later, and it's not only physical, but can be psychological and behavioral too. Some of the effects are: Improper brain development, impaired cognitive (learning ability) and socio-emotional (social and emotional skills), lower language development, blindness, cerebral palsy from head trauma, higher risk for heart, lung and liver diseases, obesity, cancer, high blood pressure and cholesterol, anxiety, smoking, alcoholism and drug abuse. Physical effects are just as prominent and happen more than you would think: In 2011, approximately 1,570 children died from abuse and neglect across the country—a rate of 2.10 deaths per 100,000 children. Maltreatment during infancy or early childhood can cause important regions of the brain to form and function improperly with long-term consequences on cognitive, language, and socio-emotional development, and mental health. For example, the stress of chronic abuse may cause a "hyper arousal" response in certain areas of the brain, which may result in hyperactivity and sleep disturbances. Children may experience severe or fatal head trauma as a result of abuse. Nonfatal consequences of abusive head trauma include varying degrees of visual impairment (e.g., blindness), motor impairment (e.g., cerebral palsy) and cognitive impairments. Children who experience maltreatment are also at increased risk for adverse health effects and certain chronic diseases as adults, including heart disease, cancer, chronic lung disease, liver disease, obesity, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and high levels of C-reactive protein. These effects create lifelong problems for these children, and sometimes it can be even worse than anything physical. In one long-term study, as many as 80 percent of young adults who had been abused met the diagnostic criteria for at least one psychiatric disorder at age 21. These young adults exhibited many problems, including depression, anxiety, eating disorders, and suicide attempts. In addition to physical and developmental problems, the stress of chronic abuse may result in anxiety and may make victims more vulnerable to problems such as post-traumatic stress disorder, conduct disorder, and learning, attention, and memory difficulties. It’s sad how many kids have to go through this. We need something to bring more attention to how often child abuse happens, and the severe complications that arise from it. (Violence prevention, 2014)

            '''What are the Causes and Symptoms of Abuse?'''

How can you tell if someone is getting abused? It's not always obvious and most children won't come out and tell you that they are getting abused at home. There are some signs and symptoms you can look out for that will help you determine whether or not the child is getting abuse or not. A child who's being abused may feel guilty, ashamed or confused. He or she may be afraid to tell anyone about the abuse, especially if the abuser is a parent, other relative or family friend. In fact, the child may have an apparent fear of parents, adult caregivers or family friends. That's why it's vital to watch for red flags, such as: withdrawal from friends or usual activities, changes in behavior — such as aggression, anger, hostility or hyperactivity — or changes in school performance, Depression, anxiety or a sudden loss of self-confidence, an apparent lack of supervision, frequent absences from school or reluctance to ride the school bus, reluctance to leave school activities, as if he or she doesn't want to go home, attempts at running away, rebellious or defiant behavior and attempts at suicide. Specific signs and symptoms depend on the type of abuse. Keep in mind that warning signs are just that — warning signs. The presence of warning signs doesn't necessarily mean that a child is being abused. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

''Symptoms of Physical Abuse''

There are many different types of abuse, and which each type, there are different signs and symptoms to look out for. Some Symptoms of physical abuse include: unexplained injuries, such as bruises, fractures or burns; injuries that don't match the given explanation; and untreated medical or dental problems. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

''Sexual abuse signs and symptoms''

 Sexual abuse another type of abuse and isn’t always as obvious as physical, because most of the harm happens where it is not seen or inside the child. Warning signs include: sexual behavior or knowledge that's inappropriate for the child's age, pregnancy or a sexually transmitted infection, blood in the child's underwear, statements that he or she was sexually abused, trouble walking or sitting, and abuse of other children sexually. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

''Emotional abuse signs and symptoms''

        Emotional abuse, like sexual, is hard to detect because the abuse is inside the child’s head. Emotional abuse can be the only abuse the child suffers from, but emotional abuse typically is associated with and results from other types of abuse and neglect. Symptoms include: delayed or inappropriate emotional development, loss of self-confidence or self-esteem, social withdrawal, depression, headaches or stomachaches with no medical cause, avoidance of certain situations, such as refusing to go to school or ride the bus, and desperately seeks affection. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

''Neglect signs and symptoms''

Neglect is the most common abuse and is often forgotten about. Warning signs of neglect include: poor growth or weight gain, poor hygiene, lack of clothing or supplies to meet physical needs, taking food or money without permission, eating a lot in one sitting or hiding food for later, poor record of school attendance, lack of appropriate attention for medical, dental or psychological problems, even though the parents have been notified, emotional swings that are inappropriate or out of context to the situation, and indifference. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

''Parental behavior''

Sometimes a parent's demeanor or behavior sends red flags about child abuse. Warning signs include a parent who: Shows little concern for the child, appears unable to recognize physical or emotional distress in the child, denies that any problems exist at home or school, or blames the child for the problems, consistently blames, belittles or berates the child and describes the child with negative terms, such as "worthless" or "evil", expects the child to provide him or her with attention and care and seems jealous of other family members getting attention from the child, uses harsh physical discipline or asks teachers to do so, demands an inappropriate level of physical or academic performance, severely limits the child's contact with others, offers conflicting or unconvincing explanations for a child's injuries or no explanation at all, although most child health experts condemn the use of violence in any form, some people still use corporal punishment (such as spanking) as a way to discipline their children. Corporal punishment has limited effectiveness in deterring behavior and is associated with aggressive behavior in the child. Any corporal punishment may leave emotional scars.

Parental behaviors that cause pain or physical injury — even when done in the name of discipline — could be child abuse. (Diseases conditions, 2015)

'''Harm Reducing Techniques and Prevention'''

Don’t let fear or embarrassment prevent you from seeking help. In the United States in 2012, child protective services agencies received an estimated 3.4 million referrals involving approximately 6.3 million children. If you want to report an incident of child abuse, contact your local department of human services. A social worker will take a report over the telephone and investigate the situation. Your name will not be released to the family. (Children's Hospital, 2014)

The first step is to provide a safe environment to prevent further harm. The sooner this happens, the better the child's chance for physical and emotional recovery. This includes separating the child, as well as any other children in the household, from the person suspected of abuse. Any physical injuries will be treated, either in a hospital or at a doctor's office, depending on how serious they are. Counseling is always recommended for abused or neglected children. It usually focuses on: How they feel about themselves, their past experiences, fears and concerns they may have about the present and future, and for very young children, counseling may involve play therapy. (parenting, 2015)

Conclusion

The effects of child abuse can have long lasting effects and even start a cycle. It is shown that children that are abused will more than likely grow up and abuse their children. It's all they know on how to be a parent, it's what they were shown on how to treat children. This cycle isn't always true and can be broken however, the best way to prevent child abuse is to not start it, and if it is started, you'll want to stop it early. The best way to stop it early is to train everyone that deals with children to know what to look out for. They should bring nurses in once every year to check the children and ask those questions that would help see if they are getting abused. There are so many ways to prevent child abuse, one only needs to be informed.

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